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Sunday, 27 September 2026

Pornography vs Sexuality vs Society:

Pornography vs Sexuality vs Society: 

 

 Pornography inherently degrades and dehumanizes. Art celebrates the meaning and value of sexual intimacy between two loving individuals.

 

Of course to the unhindered mind, any classic nude art can be reduced to the selfish needs  and perverted tastes of the individual whose gaze is steeped and altered by such needs,  perverted  mind and  wicked heart. This clearly sends the indulging viewer into a more destructive and debased loop of  further depravity. From which state becomes almost impossible to  rescue. But help is available in some forms ranging from blocking apps, psychologists, counsellors, accountability groups and  self-help books.

 


  The Catechism of the Catholic Church addresses pornography as well:


 Pornography consists in removing real or simulated sexual acts from the intimacy of the partners, in order to display them deliberately to third parties. It offends against chastity because it perverts the conjugal act, the intimate giving of spouses to each other. It does grave injury to the dignity of its participants (actors, vendors, the public), since each one becomes an object of base pleasure and illicit profit for others. It immerses all who are involved in the illusion of a fantasy world. It is a grave offense. Civil authorities should prevent the production and distribution of pornographic materials.

 

 One need only look at the major cultural, technological, psychological, biological and spiritual factors converging in our world today to see how pornography has become one of the trademark corruptions of humanity. The fact that our culture is dedicated to capitalism and consumerism contributes to one of the age-old advertising mantras, “Sex sells.” Nearly half a century after the so-called,political, cultural, economic,relational and sexual revolution of the 1950s, 60s,and 70s we are still experiencing its aftershocks.

( P.Paul,*). (Edited)


Of course many may read, chuckle and mock this post because pornography is largely accepted or treated as "normal" by societies in the West. There are robust exceptions and a blind eye for some "softer" forms is used by most jurisdictions, instead of enforced prohibitions. Gone is the  brown paper- bordered shop in the early 60s  culture, some businesses carried print copies openly in the later 60s and 70s and now the internet is the medium. Adults are treated separately as they are of age having the adult ability to access or purchase pornography almost upon demand in almost any available medium.

 

But in more recent years there are movements occurring that are treating pornography as an evil against women, but there is ambivalence. I believe because of the twin realisation that the female form is hypnotic and natural yet exploited by some nefarious individuals and organisations. The ambivalent attitude is shown in the quotes following.


" Our Western culture increasingly rejects the sexual objectification of women, why has it simultaneously rejected the Biblical sexual ethic that gives the strongest philosophical reason for objecting"


"Christianity has never taught that sex is bad or dirty, but rather a gift from God and something that should be reserved for marriage."


"By contrast, the prevailing culture has spent decades claiming that sexual expression is liberating, while increasingly discovering that treating people as sexual objects isn’t liberating at all"

 Unknown Contributor.


( It can be noted that many may mock and ask the sarcastic question, " Oh, have you just researched the topic ? " Or "so well researched, this post " And may even criticise the conclusion forming in their own minds  by saying,"everyone or at least,boys and men, have looked at porn or they are just plain lying !" )

 

 

 Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things” (Phil 4:8)



by Digital Anvil

 

References: 

* Paul, P. 2005. Pornified: How pornography is transforming our lives, our relationships, and our families. Times Books.

and others.


 

Saturday, 26 September 2026

The Manual: Getting Masculinity Right.

The Manual: Getting Masculinity Right by Al Stewart


What does it actually mean to be a good man?


In The Manual, Australian pastor Al Stewart tackles that question at a time when public discussion about masculinity can seem dominated by what is supposedly wrong with men. Published by Matthias Media in 2022, this is instead a constructive, practical and unapologetically Christian account of what healthy masculinity can look like.

At the heart of Stewart’s argument is a compelling idea: masculinity isn't principally about status, toughness or domination. Healthy masculinity means accepting responsibility and using your strength and power for the good of others.

That makes The Manual refreshingly strengths-based. Stewart acknowledges destructive male behaviour without treating masculinity itself as a pathology. His answer to bad masculinity is not less masculinity, but better men.

And he gets wonderfully practical...

The book moves from broader questions about masculinity, male and female differences, self-control and growing from boyhood into manhood to the relationships in which character is actually tested: being a son, friend, workmate, single man, husband and father.

Underlying everything is Stewart’s Christian faith. Jesus isn't an optional appendix to his conception of manhood, but its ultimate model: strength expressed through service, responsibility, sacrifice and love.

I particularly appreciate that emphasis. Men need more than endless messages about what they should not be. Boys and men also need a positive vision of the men they can become...

The Manual provides one: mature rather than self-centred; responsible rather than passive; strong enough to serve; committed to family, friendship, faith and duty.

Accessible, humorous and highly practical, this is an excellent book for Christian men; and particularly valuable for fathers, sons, mentors and men’s groups.

The Manual is a thoughtful contribution to rebuilding a positive vision of masculinity. Definitely recommended.

#Masculinity #HealthyMasculinity #ChristianMen #CatholicMen #Fatherhood #MensBooks #MensMinistry #Manhood
 
 
 
By Masculinity Celebrated. 
 
 
(From Digital Anvil ) 

Thursday, 24 September 2026

You Need to Read This:

You Need to Read This:

 

 Are Men to Blame? If so, Why?


"There are now roughly 30.4 million unmarried American men between the ages of 20 and 39, nearly twice the number of married men in the same cohort."
 
 The predictable explanation is that men are to blame. Pornography, gaming, delayed adulthood, declining ambition, fear of commitment, social awkwardness, the manosphere, and economic stagnation all make the list of reasons.
 But after years of dissecting so-called “toxic masculinity,” perhaps it is time to ask what has toxic femininity done to the modern woman? Have women today become poor prospects for marriage?

That honest question may sound inflammatory because our culture has spent decades teaching women to evaluate men while treating reciprocal scrutiny as sexism. Women are encouraged to identify red flags, examine a man's income, ambition, temperament, sexual habits, emotional intelligence, politics, attachment style, relationship with his mother, willingness to provide, and potential as a father.
 
 This is considered discernment, rightly so. 
 
Men, however, are increasingly discovering that asking similarly consequential questions about women's character invites accusations of insecurity, misogyny, or an inability to “handle” independent women."

By Glenn Beck.


Broadcaster,Social and Political Commentator,Father,Husband and Man of Letters. Multiple Best- selling Author,Entrepreneur and Radio and TV Host.

( from Digital Anvil )

End of Ways, End of Days:

 End of Ways, End of Days:

I know that You don't quite understand, yet You dare.


Friends are vanishing, people are following their own gods and families are worried-- for themselves and little else besides.

Jesus stands at the door of your heart and knocks!

A few open but many would- be followers refuse to commit to an uncertain yet vaguely understood future. Opening to an Adventure, mocked by some, most  to a dangerous, truly frightening destination they run,

Dressed in white, flowing robes, many worship at the Throne, but GOD's angels fly to the earthly harvest among the Lost.

Tribulation  begins...

The earth quakes violently as the House of GOD is shaken.

Many scream and shout with the tragic awareness as the Son of GOD re- appears.

For 10s of 100s of millions have rejected Him.

Each day sadness roams and settles in GOD's own vision

My eyes, dim with sorrow, yet gladness fills my heart.

My life- journey nearing completion.

What remains apart from me and my body {will be} precious faith purified by supernatural fire.

By Digital Anvil 

Wednesday, 23 September 2026

The Reversal marches Onward:

 The Reversal Marches:

 

 

 (from Digital Anvil)

 

The Reversal:

 The Reversal:

 

of Believing and Understanding 

 

 I do not seek to understand in order that I may believe, but I believe in order that I may understand; for of this I feel sure, that, if I did not believe, I would not understand.

ANSELM OF CANTERBURY

(From Digital Anvil)



Tuesday, 22 September 2026

Eucalypts: Fire That Liberates.


Eucalypts: Fire That Liberates


Stephen Pyne has written a book about the Australian landscape called Burning Bush: A Fire History of Australia. He refers to one of the remarkable attributes of the eucalypt, found throughout Australia, as its ability to survive fire.

This has always been the case. When the first Europeans arrived in Australia, they saw the First Nations people using bushfires as forest management.

Pyne notes that eucalypts are built for fire. He writes:

“For most eucalypts, fire was not a destroyer but a liberator.”

Fire does not destroy the tree; it reinvigorates the eucalypt.

We can be like the eucalypt. The fires of life, which sometimes feel like that will burn us up, can actually deepen and build us. God promises us that when we walk through the fire, He will be there (Isaiah 43:2).

Share this daily- reading.

Appreciation for this reading to Karl Faase.

( from Digital Anvil )

Ps:
Like the legendary Phoenix, the Eucalypt rises, freed to live.again.
I read this daily- reading during a tough time...and wanted to share with you,my discovery. Coupled with care and prayer, the end result is mightily accomplished




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