Dear Reader:

Forms of Fear?

 

Anxiety, fear, worry, and stress are common in our daily lives. 

 

The extreme form of anxiety known as "a panic attack" is increasingly being talked about.

 

Anxiety, stress, and pressure can be catalysts for overcoming challenges in life.

 

The Apostle Paul described the external pressures he endured, such as persecution and imprisonment, along with his constant concern for the churches. Despite all that, he still had room in his heart to feel the anxiety of others, for he wrote, “Who is weak without my being weak?   Without my intense concern, who leads someone into sin?Consider the love felt in the words of the Apostle Paul, and then contemplate God's compassion.

There are individuals who can manage that level of pressure!

I can confirm that I have faced similar pressures and have been empowered by God to overcome the stress. Even during my time at a call centre years ago, I frequently had panic attacks at work. I coped! Jesus Christ is the reason I was able to do it! It became clear to me that God is undeniably real and provides significant help. Don't worry about handling them when they hit - that's the wrong approach. In the past, my heart would pound and I would sweat, afraid of the overpowering situation and still having to work. God taught me ( and via my wife’s wisdom & love) that I could to some extent prepare for each panic attack and after studying their patterns, of when, where, etcetera. I had to dispose of around twelve bottles of anti-panic medication after a year or two.

 It's crucial to have a doctor involved throughout the process of gaining control over panic attacks and not to stop prescribed medication without their involvement. My other fears were resolved through the assistance of a qualified counselor and the power of Christ. There are still fears lingering within me and I trust that God is addressing them as He deems appropriate. My trust in Him grows as I confront old fears, but I realize it's because I don't rely on God's guidance. These instances serve as reminders from God of my complete reliance on Him. Yes! God is capable of offering help. Learn to Trust His plan for you as you journey this world with Him as your Guide.

    

 

 

 

Desperation?

 

 

Dear Reader                                 

How desperately I used to be to be loved and valued by others!

Yes, it’s normal to want recognition, acknowledgment and value to be placed upon us by significant others. Respect and love are necessary for our emotional well-being. Being part of a community of loyal souls is essential because we are relational beings. In fact, humans are strong social beings. We learn very early - from that moment we are born--- can we cry without wanting our parents (or someone else) touching, and soothing our cries away. We are born with a vast sense of belonging to the very persons who bring us to life. In the womb, we grow accustomed to our mother’s heartbeat, movements and feelings. The song of life is those first sounds we are hearing when we are first hearing. We, as unborn children, feel safe listening to that rhythmic beating and to the inner closeness of our fluid sanctuary. 

We all need each other as much as we need love, acceptance, companionship and heart-to-heart understanding. In this aspect, we all fail a lot to give these vital elements to our family and friends. But I’m learning with God’s help.

 Respect and gratitude are two other elements of life I often find lacking in life, especially when we should remember to thank the Sovereign Ruler of our lives. Mostly I do not get it right with people, nor can I fix what I’ve damaged without His Ultimate Help. I ask for His Healing touch!

And I praise Him for the unmerited favour He extends to me.

If you are feeling lonely, maybe even broken-hearted, God wants you to know that He knows what you are going through. He wants to inform you that when your heart fractures into two parts. Right now if circumstances that you face, well, you can’t get through, I’ve been there too. But He wants you to be reminded that He can calm the raging storm. He is the Creator of our solar system—even our universe. Please, He didn’t create your trouble-- He’s ready to hear and help your heart’s cry--to be answered by Him. To be answered via other persons we know, He created, but without a doubt to be answered by Him! In His way and time! Your heart can be refreshed and your mind can be renewed by him. 

He set me free! He can set you free! Invite Him to.