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"Today I was expecting to meet a hero of mine (Warren Farrell). But I also had the opportunity to meet and speak with Nick Freitas (former U.S. Army Green Beret and legislator in Virginia) as well as John Papola (Dad Saves America). Three heroes in a single day.
Warren Farrell is a legend of the men's movement, and an iconic author of nine influential books (from the mid-1970s through to the modern day). Well into his 80s, he continues to advocate for positive change, through the establishment of the White House Council on Boys and Men...
He had two roles at the ARC conference (in London ) today. One was a daytime panel discussion with Tammy Peterson and Virginia Tapscott, which was chaired by Gerard Holland. The other was a dinner panel with James Daly, Freya India, and Nick Freitas, hosted by Katy Faust and John Papola. Both were fascinating discussions on our social fabric, males, females, healthy relationships, and families.
Nick Freitas delivered a moving address on the first day of the ARC conference, about how our society has failed boys (and how we can save them):
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FqV6TCSkAgk
John Papola did a wonderful job of chairing a fantastic panel, with deep expertise, different perspectives, and strong views.
Virginia Tapscott mentioned that children need emotional regulation. Mothers are critical to the first three years, providing attachment during these crucial years. Healthy relationships require being able to sit with discomfort, and 90% of the skills for this are laid down during the first three years (hearing criticism, modulating reactions).
Warren mentioned dad deprivation a couple of times, with fathers being complementary to mothers. Males and females are different. 40% of children are born with parents not being married, which is a particular risk factor for boys. Warren is 83 years old now. Single most important thing in life is handling personal criticism without becoming defensive.
Tammy Peterson reflected on marriage being key, with her relationship to Jordan being an inspiration for many other people. They always had honesty, and effective communication. She wanted to have children immediately, but Jordan wasn't ready at that time. Marriage is full of revelation, for both partners."
"It was an honour to meet Warren and his wife Liz. He signed my first edition copy of The Liberated Man, and we had a lovely conversation."
from Anonymous Contributor.
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