Women: They are the Best- especially if >>>

Many 'now' women exude too focused self- love, subjective superiority and are over- entitled by some feminist ideals.

I know that feminism was necessary but the movement is now going too far.

Men and in particular Western boys are being told that they are unwanted, uninvited and unwelcome! Thus they are being cut loose by some of the female status quo. My essay is motivated and derived from the  sudden knowledge that for males under 35 years old,the leading cause of death is suicide. This is triple and a bit more than the suicide rate of females under 35. What is happening to younger males in AU ? In other western nations, similar statistics are being recorded,

But this is truly so and there is more to address here...

 Their (normal testosterone -inspired) 'advances' are sometimes characterised  or rebuffed as creepy,toxic,unappreciated and "since we Girls are now b-e-tter that males, what a waste of time, even  sex with males is viewed differently while  undergoing changes." I believe that younger males are being unfairly demonised by a loud minority.

 

is there an insistent matriarchy persisting? 

 Men as leaders are under -fire as though they are clueless, too driven, too exultantly minded, short-sighted and poor substitutes --at least in gaga-land. as though such are better trained for elsewhere. Yet males are the almost exclusively firies,armed personnel, mineworkers, rigworkers and police. Vocations dealing with potential injuries,death and destruction. Vocations  which are  being altered in recent years. Salaries and wages,oft viewed as wholly male- centric are not now the norm with many females in traditionally male- dominated roles earning some Ks more than men.

 The glass ceiling has been shattered.

 Now males languish in all metrics in the education pipeline trailing well behind women in many degree necessary jobs.

AI-it would seem - dealing with classic entry- level roles severely and adding to the woes of once male- dominant occupations.

This is a poor situation in the West!

 Where the sexes are  seemingly blaming each other for some of their own issues, instead of  addressing wider social problems.

After centuries of  virtual second class citizenship women that endured,  masculinity had a bad rap sheet! 

But not every male thought or thinks this way, just those  few villains on the extreme - end of the continuum.

Men learn,lead and signify better, but  vocal women sometimes call it empowerment when the girlboss arrives or when mens' health or talent is somehow compromised.

But this is not the overall consensus.

 

Many more traditionally thinking girls and women are re-capturing the lost light of so- called toxic masculinity.

 

 Men,some of the most errantly influential deserved rejection and banishment,even death ( think Hitler, Pol pot, and Idi Amin and other unmentionables )

However the transformation of the unmistakable "social  malaise" had largely been necessary but not-- in my opinion anymore.

Decades of masculinity in decline has been more noticeable in some  circles than in others. Attention has returned its focus onto the demise of masculinity and its role in the home, workplace, education and nation with many speakers, authors and reformers having beaten their warring drums, raised their mics and broken old and new ground.

Christianity, however, strikes a notable balance between males and females.

Hundreds of decades ago,one man challenged social norms and treated children,girls and women with dignity,respect and gentleness.

Rich and poor Women (and visionary men ) flocked to support him with coin, resources and  then spread the good news.

That Man was Jesus.

His moment became a global movement.

By Digital Anvil.

 

I thank Amy for her welcome input and corrections.