Woman Undeniable: ( Re-Work A)

 

"It has been said that a girl learns her worth as her breasts emerge at school."

But this is the poorest  and inherently so  of an assessment of a yet developing physique that culminates in later young adulthood and as a woman. It never-- ultimately-- defines a girl or woman, even though its biologically feminine or female. Like Martin Luther King Jr said, her worth is defined by her character.( Paraphrase)

Daughters learn the real female promise from Dad and Mum. Time and peers grow the girl.Besties, cinema and radical music and first crushes. Teachers and boys, sleepovers, unicorns and snakes. Laughter, heartbreak, tears and fakes. All come together to make such fun. She is  hoping love breaks through like the sun.

Books and shining knights crown the night. Never did her heart receive such light.

 Then this girl  is skewed by the  accidental discovery of pornography  online.

 Young girls ( and young boys ) are influenced by multiplied views of nude young males and females. Smartphones  further distorting that view of truth.No longer are boys and men seen as innocent, certainly  they no longer  dreamed of as sublime,heroic knights in armour. Well,they dream as best as it can be.

Feminism vowed empowerment but lost some credibility when overreaching its momentum by assimilating transgender and woke ideologies.

 Blame  for much of social ills settled on male makeup but the error went further and declared masculinity ' toxic' while females were all considered wholly innocent and pure. Sinless nature seems to be. Are they though for all to see?

Is perfection all female divine? Yes! Some say, No! Many do state. Lovely and kind, nuture is true,but sinless perfection isn't their due.

Almost impossible to escape  notice is the outrage  or backlash intensified by the 90s male hip hop and rap artists leaving girl power and women in disarray. It became a thing .along the way much to the dismay of countless many. Parents were outraged and society  became divided as it often does. Is the social reversal requirement for 'toxicity' the feminisation of boys and men? It seemed so!

Boomers were like 'kindergarten' bands with  love profound  and love lost lyrics and heavy rock music compared to  the rage,violence and hatred espoused by  some  music artists of the millennials which

left a  dark stain on males and females alike.

Gen Z males softened the male angst and rage   and begun to re-solve the confusion by reverting to conservatism and many  Gen Z girls  hardened their stance and collapsing into what one might call unreasonably strong feminism.

 

But earthly paradise was not lost, strange rules were not the boss. Many new voices emerged, Joe Rogan and other influencers entered the fray, deeming common sense choose the way.

And true feminism  and each surviving  heroine releases the girl from some historical attitudes  of objectification, skewed sexual ethics and body -image de-humanisation.

However when a younger woman encounters the modeling /movie industry and receives highly paid beauty " commodification" they become an object of fame, male / female gaze and glorification. Millions imitate and imagine their worth by buying more of the advertised wares.

This empowerment of adoring fans stifles  and twists the real growth of emotional,relational and character health of the mind/heart of the younger woman. Who sometimes becomes the female activist using the tools of beauty to more acclaim. Celebrities come and go,much activism is for ego show.

Thankfully beauty is subjectively objective. Returning to a semblance of tradition without the invective.

While some cultures in human history have extolled  male physical perfection and some  cultures hide the female form.

In Western culture the female form is deified,glorified and worshiped. We all worship that which we truly desire.

Some curse,most exclaim that the female form is truly a successfully lovely frame. As we all know,  beauty sells.

A girl receives her real worth in the process of woman becoming and truly arrives when released and transformed with power from high.

Of course i could be wrong,it could be amathia.

Inspired by essays from Sophia Gilbert,but divergent.

(by Digital Anvil)

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