One
factor behind this striking political divide between the sexes,
especially the rightward turn among young men, is the Left’s obsession
with condemning “the patriarchy” and “toxic masculinity.” Many young men
hear this as a condemnation of their very existence. Similarly, the
leftward lurch among women could have something to do with the perception
that abortion is a women’s issue and the increasingly hysterical warnings
that restricting abortion is the equivalent of subjecting women to Handmaid’s Tale-style
reproductive slavery.
Still, pollsters have noted for decades now one thing that reliably
predicts conservative views and voting, especially among women: marriage.
Pick pretty much any election in any year, and half or even most married
women vote
differently than
their unmarried counterparts. In the 2020 election, for instance, the gap
between how married and unmarried women voted was 15
points,
compared with a 10-point gap between married and unmarried men.
As we know, marriage has been in steep decline for years. In fact, Pew
Research reports that the share of 40-year-olds who have never been married
is higher today than at any time on record. Fertility, too, is near a
record low,
making our country more single and more childless than at any other time
in its history. It would be foolish to think these numbers would not
eventually show up in political behavior, and that one of the most likely
proofs would be the widening gap between the voting habits of men and
women.
Marriage and family are chief among what conservative writers have long
called society’s “mediating institutions,” those layers between
individuals and the state that provide security, opportunity, and meaning
without the government’s intervention. As entering marriages and creating
families becomes rarer, it’s little wonder so many who historically would
have looked for protection and provision in the home are now instead
looking to Washington.
In other words, the wedges that radical feminism, the sexual revolution,
and the breakdown of the family have driven between the sexes are likely
the main reason
for this growing political divide. Women and men were created for one
another, not just to build families but to build societies. Since each
sex is indispensable, both, in their own ways, are lost when isolated. As
the Apostle Paul puts it in
1 Corinthians,
“Woman is not independent of man nor man of woman; for as woman was made
from man, so man is now born of woman. And all things are from God.”
Instead of pointing fingers at one another as Adam and Eve did after the
fall, we should take this emerging political divide as clear evidence
that without our oldest and most important mediating institution—the
family, society unravels. There’s no way forward if men and women remain
at such loggerheads, not only does dating become a nightmare, but the
future is at risk. After all, the government cannot birth new citizens,
voters, and taxpayers. Men and women stand or fall together. A nation in
which the sexes are at war is a house divided against itself at the most
fundamental level. Such a house cannot stand.
This Breakpoint was co-authored by Shane Morris. For more
resources to live like a Christian in this cultural moment, go to breakpoint.org.
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